All men are bad mentality

October 30th, 2023

I've come to realize more and more that the vast majority of people's lives are based around one or a series of bad decisions, especially in relationships. Men usually have a bad reputation because a lot of women are uneducated and don't understand the reality of life, feelings, and how men operate. We're typically taught that men aren't any good and it's no value in being loyal most times because he'll just end up cheating. We are also encouraged to have a "you're the prize" mentality along with the belief that whatever one man won't do, another will. We're taught to be selfish in the pursuit of love and this "love" is always centered around gifts, money, and false promises... the ILLUSION of love.

Lot of women are taught to be too giving to men that don't value us and do it believing that it'll make them love and appreciate us. Then when we're still unloved, the blame gets placed on the man. Long story short, a lot of women are hurt and scorned when it comes to men because they tried to convince a man, the wrong man, to love them and it didn't work. There is no such thing as convincing someone to love you from the heart, and a person cannot treat you with genuine and pure love if they don't have it for you. You can make a person love what you do FOR them, love how they can rely on you and trust you to be there, but the actual love for WHO that person is aside from all of that is nonexistent.

A lot of men end up stuck with a woman because she got pregnant and he wanted to do the right thing. Living out of obligation is not easy to sustain so cheating can and will happen for reasons outside of lust, and when it happens, the man gets persecuted and made to be the bad guy. In actuality, he made a mistake, bad- decision, and didn't know or understand how things would be later on down the line.

---> Most times they don't know any more than what the woman does, as far as how our decisions of today will play out later on. We are all misguided and lacking real direction.

Something I added to it in 2024 when I re-wrote it: We're encouraged to primarily focus on our feelings and look for a man who is always going to make you FEEL loved, wanted, sexy, beautify, important, etc. Problem is, is that it is always centered around superficial and materialistic things that do not matter. Showing us off on social media, constantly buying gifts, and loving us "out loud". "Love" to the world needs to be shown and expressed through camera, when in reality love is not something that can be captured in a photo, IT JUST IS.

It is not hard to find a man who can and will wine and dine you, because most times, he's just doing it to get what he wants. Coming across a man that actually cares about and values you is NOT as simple as finding a fast-food restaurant on every corner.

Priorities and Values matter a lot:

Written: October 16th, 2023

Looking at how warped the minds of the world are and how stupid things occupy their minds, I see people are sleep and blind. Society makes us focus on ourselves in a face value way. Makes us insecure so that we’re putting in as much time as possible trying to achieve physical perfection, and that the media dictates what perfection is. [We] live for attention and a lot of people can’t do anything without needing the handclaps and recognition from as many people as possible. The world is so materialistic and competition minded, and the stuff it has convinced people that matters the most does not fill the void in our life.

The greatest thing you can have on this Earth is God-given knowledge and wisdom. There is no monetary value on it, and [its surely not given to just anybody], so it’s not something the masses has a genuine interest in.

As a woman, the type of woman you are determines what type of person your children will be. Raising your kids to be good people and withstand the world they’re going to be faced with requires strength, security in self, knowledge, plus all around strength. It requires morality, good character, principles, and integrity. You can’t and won’t find these things on just any shelf. Society has us worrying about beauty, body, and how many views we’re getting on social media, and the kids are falling apart because of it.

It’s power in being a woman of God… our minds cannot afford to be stuck on stupid!